Me: I'm going to do a load of darks. Is all your laundry down there?
SH: Let me check.
Me: You've known for the past 24 hours that I've been planning to do wash. Why would there be anything dirty still in your closet?
SH: There are things that I might be able to wear again but if you're doing laundry, I want washed.
Me: No. You've known that I was going to do laundry. When you unpacked, you put your dirty clothes in the laundry. Why would you have anything else still to go in?
SH: I don't know but I'm glad you asked me. It's not nagging if you remind me that you are doing laundry.
Me: I should not have to remind you.