SH: Wait. You let someone pierce your bellybutton but now you won't let me put my finger in it?
SH: How come?
Me: That was before I was married.
SH: But that's more intimacy than you let me have.
SH: Any boundaries you let someone else breach before we got married should not apply to me.
SH: I should be able to do anything anyone did to you before we were married.
SH: But that's logical!