1. SH has not changed since we started dating. I knew what I was getting into. I mean, he vacuumed the pollen off the sunflowers. (That was back when he bought me flowers. Of course, now he supports me completely so I can have a life of lazy luxury - spas, diamonds, housekeeper, cook, gardener and lunch with the ladies, so I am doing OK.)
2. It could be worse. He could be a slob.
SH vacuums the coffee grounds out of the coffee machine. He claims that I am sloppy when I empty the used grounds. He is wrong, of course, but it is a small thing to let him think he is superior in this aspect of our relationship. Plus, I get a super-clean coffee maker.