What it looks like when I do a home repair project:
1. I get all my materials together 2. I do the project. 3. I clean up.
What it looks like when SH does a home repair project:
1. He starts the project (caulking the tub, for example). 2. He asks me to get him a rag. 3. He asks me to get him a bowl. 4. He finishes. 5. Then he starts work on the gutters. 6. And calls me out to maybe hold the ladder. 7. But no, he guesses he doesn't need me after all. 8. Oh wait! Come back out here! 9. No. False alarm. 10. Wait! Wait! I need you! I need you to admire me while I work!