SH: I don't want to go to the doctor tomorrow.
SH: You made the appointment for me.
Me: So change it.
SH: It's too late. It's not the right thing to do. It's all your fault.
Me: Don't blame me. I give you permission to cancel. Go ahead.
SH: No, I want to whine and I want to blame you, even though I was there when you sent the email noting the times I was available.