Me: You are just as controlling as he is.
SH: I am not!
Me: You are so!
SH: How's that? He tries to get everyone to do things his way.
Me: So do you!
SH: I do not. I do not try to impose my way on other people.
Me: You do. You don't like the way other people do dishes. You don't like how people stack dishes in the dish drainer. The knives. You always re-do the knives.
SH: That's not imposing my will.
Me: Yes it is! You are always trying to make me do those things your way.
SH: It doesn't count when I do it with you.
Me: Yes it does.
SH: No. I do not impose my will on other people. I am polite and patient with them.
Me: But not with me.
SH: I don't need to be. You're stuck with me. They're not.
Me: Don't count on any [wxyz], buster.