SH: When you're with a group of people, the group should time itself to accomodate the slowest person.
Me: What do you mean?
SH: I mean, if there is someone who wants to be early to everything and someone who is usually late, everyone should wait for the late person.
Me: That is total crap!
SH: No! Otherwise the late person is stressed and miserable because everyone is pushing him to be early.
Me: And you think the people who are waiting for the late person aren't stressed?
SH: It's not hard to wait for someone.
Me: Let me explain something to you, as I know you have never once in your life been the person to wait for someone who is late. Being the on-time person being forced to wait for the late person is a miserable, miserable experience. It is better for one slow person to be miserable by being rushed than for five on-time people to have to wait for a slow person.