Me: Why did you marry me?
SH: I don't know!
SH: Because I was lonely. Because I love you. Because you're good at [wxyz]. Because we have a common background and common values. Because I like being with you. Because you're a good cook.
Me: Not because of "A shared dedication to fixing the “ills of the world,” which were being addressed by the self-help, peace and antiwar movements?"